{"id":8412,"date":"2022-05-16T14:22:56","date_gmt":"2022-05-16T14:22:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/automatizaventas.net\/?p=74132"},"modified":"2025-01-15T14:54:52","modified_gmt":"2025-01-15T14:54:52","slug":"que-es-el-amor-ideal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/automatizaventas.net\/?p=8412","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el amor ideal?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el amor ideal?<\/strong><\/span> Lo que nos han contado, lo que nos hemos cre\u00eddo, las pel\u00edculas, las canciones\u2026 Todo esto nos lleva a idealizar el amor. <span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>Al colocar al otro en un pedestal, nos colocamos nosotros en un triste puesto de inferioridad.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">En la fase de enamoramiento parece inevitable esto de idealizar al otro, el torrente de neurotransmisores, nos hace obviar los fallos y defectos del otro, pero llega un momento en que la venda se cae y como dec\u00eda el chiste, <span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>pasamos de ver un maravilloso lunar a ver una horrible verruga.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>El amor rom\u00e1ntico<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0nos lleva a pensar que las relaciones se basan en pasi\u00f3n descontrolada, en la dependencia emocional y en el sacrificio. Las personas con baja autoestima son propensas a desarrollar esta idealizaci\u00f3n de la pareja. En estos casos escogemos parejas totalmente opuestas a nosotros y que reflejan cualidades que creemos que nos faltan.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Lo primero que quiero aclarar es que a nosotros no nos falta nada, <span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>no somos medias naranjas<\/strong><\/span>, como nos han hecho creer. Simplemente no somos capaces de ver esas cualidades maravillosas en nosotros, el otro solo nos espeja eso que nosotros tambi\u00e9n tenemos. Me llama la atenci\u00f3n aquello que creo no tener.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">El pensar que me falta algo y que el otro me lo tiene que proporcionar, me lleva a relacionarme desde la carencia y la dependencia emocional y por supuesto a responsabilizar a la otra persona de mi felicidad. <span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>\u201cSi no me das lo que yo necesito no ser\u00e9 feliz\u201d.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>Para m\u00ed el amor ideal, es que te das a ti mism@, sabiendo que nadie te tiene que dar nada para que seas feliz y que t\u00fa, y solo t\u00fa, eres responsable de tu felicidad.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Cuando te sientes completo, no necesitas que nadie te cubra nada y entonces puedes compartir esa plenitud. Te aceptas tal y como eres y aceptas a tu pareja tal y como es, sin pretender cambiar nada.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>La felicidad es un estado interior<\/strong><\/span> <span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>y solo dentro de nosotros podremos alcanzarla<\/strong><\/span>. Las personas felices son felices independientemente de si tienen pareja o no la tienen, todas las personas son personas completas que no les falta ning\u00fan trozo (ni mucho menos una mitad) para alcanzar todo lo que se propongan. De hecho, para que una pareja funcione necesita que sus dos miembros sean personas completas, independientes y felices. Una pareja feliz est\u00e1 compuesta por dos personas que deciden estar juntas, que se eligen cada d\u00eda para compartir sus vidas en los buenos momentos y en los malos. Tener pareja es maravilloso, pero debe ser por elecci\u00f3n no por necesidad.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Creo que antes de tener pareja debemos saber estar solos, debemos ser felices por nosotros mismos. <span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>Amar no es poseer, es respetar,<\/strong><\/span> respetar que la otra persona no es como nosotros, ni tiene que cubrir ninguna expectativa.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>\u201cTe amo, pero no te necesito\u201d <\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">esto es el amor ideal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es para ti el amor ideal?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #60b599;\"><strong>\u00bfC\u00f3mo es tu relaci\u00f3n de pareja, por elecci\u00f3n o por necesidad?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong style=\"color: #60b599;\">\u00bfEliges a tu pareja cada d\u00eda? <\/strong><\/p>\n<h6><\/h6>\n<h6 style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong style=\"color: #60b599;\">Te leo y te respondo en comentarios.<\/strong><\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el amor ideal? Lo que nos han contado, lo que nos hemos cre\u00eddo, las pel\u00edculas, las canciones\u2026 Todo esto nos lleva a idealizar el amor. Al colocar al otro en un pedestal, nos colocamos nosotros en un triste puesto de inferioridad. En la fase de enamoramiento parece inevitable esto de idealizar al otro, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9206,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8412","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-crecimiento-personal"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el amor ideal? \u00b7 Innerkey Coaching<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el amor ideal? \u00b7 Innerkey Coaching \u00b7 Servicios de Coaching para empresas y particulares \u00b7 Formaci\u00f3n profesional \u00b7 Desarrollo personal y profesional\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"noindex, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el amor ideal? 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